“Your exes are not the problem, work on your choices” – Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro tells Tonto Dikeh
Self-acclaimed “relationship expert”, Blessing Okoro has shared an open letter addressed to embattled Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, whose relationship to estranged lover, Prince Kpokpogri, crashed barely 3 months after making it public.
Taking to her Instagram page, Blessing advised Tonto Dikeh to work on her choices because she keeps choosing the same kind of men.
According to her, Tonto needs to reevaluate herself and answer tough questions about why she keeps choosing such men.
Blessing’s post comes after Tonto Dikeh was subjected to public ridicule following her split from Delta-born politician, Prince Kpokpogri.
Blessing Okoro wrote,
“An open letter to king Tonto dikeh.
So sorry I tried, even as I type I am still trying not m too write you but I have to because I can’t stand all I am seeing on the internet. No matter how you try to numb the pain, I know you are hurting, you have questions, unanswered questions you need answers too. You love so hard but don’t get it back, you are sweet and beautiful, even Bobrisky told me that you are. A lot of people who know u tell me, forget blessing tonto is very sweet in person.
I never use to like u, because I felt u were too dramatic and controversial until I wore the shoes of spotlight and began to feel the pain then I realized that you are just misunderstood. I took my time to study you, I followed you up from when u started acting till date then I realized that the men who come in and out of your lives are not the problem, your exes are not the problem, your PATTERN is the problem. You keep recycling the same kind of people repeatedly that is why your story is always almost the same. When you have a pattern problem, you will have to go back to the drawing board and change it if not you will become too predictable and vulnerable. A lot of men now know your pattern, even if they don’t know ur friends have told them how u function, so you can easily be triggered. King tonto please I love you, if I don’t, I will laugh, like others, gossip like them, who are pretending to love u are doing behind you, but took the bold step to write you publicly not for clout but because I know u are always online and u will see it. Please please go heal, please go and heal, the help you need is inside not outside. Look at your reflection and leave the mirror.
Those men are not the problem, ask yourself why do I keep choosing them, it’s time to work on your choices.
I love you so much, I see ur beautiful soul , your imperfect personality that wants to be perfect. Pls heal heal , heal will help you change your pattern of men . I love you king tonto. I am praying for you even tho I can’t pray that much but I pray for u ”
See her post below,