Actress Bewaji Folashade shares details of why her ex-boyfriend broke up with her
Nigerian actress Bewaji Folashade recently shared a post in which she detailed how one of her relationships came to an end because she was independent and caring.
In her posts, Folashade had stated that she never asked her man for money or gifts and did so only because she had seen a text that showed that he catered for his family.
Her choice to never ask for money also came from the fact that she could handle things on her own and thought she could relieve her man of the burden instead of being another mouth for him to feed.
Rather than be grateful, the young man felt inadequate and resorted to call her a ‘man’ for not being needy and went ahead to cut of the relationship.
For many yrs ,I endured my “boyfriend” at the time calling me a MAN…saying “u never ask for money,ya always paying for stuffs,I can’t marry a woman like u🤷🏽♀️…it hurt me o but dude didn’t know I came across a message sent by his mom one time …she was talking bout how he…
— Bewaji Of Lagos❤️ (@Mo_BewaA) June 30, 2019
Years later, he messaged her to check on her and she somehow revealed why she never asked him for money. Noticing that he had lost a good one, he tried to get her back but she declined and told him she had moved on.
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Baba broke up that year o! Simply because I don’t allow him spend on me…it’s been yrs n uncle just hopped into my DM again n I told him d reason/s why I was like that then …he was like “it took me years to find out that a girl like u is rare”😊…I want u back 😂
— Bewaji Of Lagos❤️ (@Mo_BewaA) June 30, 2019
Until I’m married to u,I ain’t your responsibility,don’t get it wrong ,I’d appreciate gifts n whatever you decide to do for me out of love !But I’d never compel a boyfriend into paying my bills,even in marriage gan,ll still pay “our” bills,no vex! My mother raised me differently
— Bewaji Of Lagos❤️ (@Mo_BewaA) June 30, 2019