“You should be carrying a child not balloon” – Lady drags her friend as she celebrate wedding anniversary

A Nigerian lady has recounted how a close friend humiliated her over childlessness during the celebration of her 3rd wedding anniversary.

The lady in question had taken to her social media page to share a 3rd wedding-anniversary photoshoot with her husband as they both held a balloon in the shape of number 3.

According to her, a close friend took to the comment session to humiliate her for holding a balloon instead of a child of their own.

Read her full story below …

“I got married on my birthday 6 years ago. So its always a holiday literally in our home… yeah great stuff but I have a story. Stay with me

I posted this picture as per felicitations on MY BIRTHDAY, ON MY PAGE and a ‘friend’ (at that time) sends a message.

This was the message…
Happy Birthday, Kiki. Wishing you many more wins. This is coming from a place of love, don’t you think it’s embarrassing that for your 3rd year anniversary you are making your husband carry a balloon when he should be carrying his child/children? This should be more of a reflection so I believe in times like this, have wisdom so your enemies will not rejoice over you. Xoxo

I kept that message. I laughed. I clapped. I ‘Heheheddd , I folded my hands put them on my head. It was s000 many feelings I couldn’t express.

For me, it was just a picture. I was celebrating a healthy marriage & a happy birthday. I was genuinely in a happy place. I truly evaluated where my mind was and the smile on this picture was for me. I was honestly thankful for the amazing life I have.

My Life wasn’t & still isn’t perfect, but it is mine. I don’t deserve that message & in my heart, I knew I had lost a friend.
I never deleted that message TILL TODAY. I had transferred that same screenshot from BlackBerry to Samsung to iPhone to Eternally VEX

It wasn’t worth it. Which of God’s mercies can I deny? None!!!!
I’m shedding weight in my life I’m decluttering. 2020 has been heavy but unforgettable in amazing ways.

I have been cleaning the house, work, closet, everything except my heart.
That’s where the hard work is… If 2020 taught us anything… It’s definitely that there is no time for ‘IRANU’ & no one and nothing should have enough power to hold your Joy Ransom!”